If we take our cue from Silicon Valley, there's no reason to fear dying — or even think about death — because soon enough we'll all live forever.
By the headlines, it might seem like Peter Thiel is on the cusp of finding the key to eternal life and that startups will soon succeed in making us immortal. One of the co-founders of Google hopes to "cure death" and the tycoon behind Oracle finds the idea of accepting our mortality as "incomprehensible."
Not only we will live forever, they seem to believe, but we will be part of "the Singularity," merging with artificial intelligence and transcending our mere human limitations. And, God forbid we don't get there soon enough, if we do die, we will be frozen in liquid nitrogen and re-awaken when the quest to immortality has been reached.
The rest of us, even if we don't believe that humans will suddenly be merged with computers, would still rather avoid thinking about death. It's unpleasant. It's scary. It's sad. Why would anyone want to think about the thing they don't want to happen.
The truly wise know that both those mindsets are misguided. They know the secret: that death is not something to be avoided or fought, but embraced. And that doing so is actually a formula for great insights, breakthroughs and wisdom.
Memento Mori: Remember you are mortal. It was this powerful idea that fueled the ancient Stoics, that transformed Montaigne from an indulgent rich man to a great writer and thinker who would write volumes of popular essays, who'd serve two terms as mayor, travel internationally as a dignitary, and serve as a confidante of the king. It's the motivation of the great forms of the 17th century artwork called vanitas.
Death doesn't make life pointless; knowing it's there creates priority and thinking about it gives you perspective. So you can focus on what's important. Below are seven reminders adapted from "The Daily Stoic" to help you find inspiration in your own mortality and think differently about death.
Spendthrifts of time.
"Were all the geniuses of history to focus on this single theme, they could never fully express their bafflement at the darkness of the human mind. No person would give up even an inch of their estate, and the slightest dispute with a neighbor can mean hell to pay; yet we easily let others encroach on our lives — worse, we often pave the way for those who will take it over. No person hands out their money to passersby, but to how many do each of us hand out our lives! We're tight-fisted with property and money, yet think too little of wasting time, the one thing about which we should all be the toughest misers."— Seneca
Each day there will be endless interruptions: phone calls, emails, visitors, unexpected events. Booker T. Washington observed that "the number of people who stand ready to consume one's time, to no purpose, is almost countless." A philosopher, on the other hand, knows that these intrusions prevent us from doing the thinking and work we were put here to do. This is why they so diligently protect their personal space and thoughts from trespassers and needy neighbors. They know that a few minutes of contemplation are worth more than any meeting or report. They also know how little time we're actually given in life — and how quickly our stores can be depleted.
It was the passing of a friend that reminded entrepreneur and investor Tim Ferriss how "too often, we spend time focusing on the trivial with people who contribute nothing but their own self-interest." We must resist this, and instead prioritize and shun distractions — as Peter Drucker, one of the greatest business minds of the last century put it, "Force yourself to set priorities. Do first things first – and second things not at all." Why would you do that if you think time is infinite? If you think you have time for it all, you'll end up doing a lot of things you don't need to do.
The Stoic philosopher Seneca reminds us that while we might be good at protecting our physical property, we are far too lax at enforcing our mental boundaries. Property can be regained; there is quite a bit of it out there — some of it still untouched by man. But time? Time is our most irreplaceable asset—instead of striving to make more of it, we can far more easily just stop wasting so much of it.
The prophecy that never fails.
"Let each thing you would do, say or intend be like that of a dying person."— Marcus Aurelius
Have you ever heard someone ask: "What would you do if you found out tomorrow that you had cancer?" The question is designed to make you consider how different life might be if you were suddenly given just a few months or weeks to live. There's nothing like a terminal illness to wake people up.
But here's the thing: You already have a terminal diagnosis. We all do! As the writer Edmund Wilson put it, "Death is one prophecy that never fails." Every person is born with a death sentence. Elon Musk joked after his near-death experience on a vacation, "That's my lesson for taking a vacation: Vacation will kill you." You never know when it can happen but you know it will happen.
Steve Jobs, in his famous commencement speech, said that "death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life. It is life's change agent." As he would put it later in the speech, "Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."
So far, no one has ever escaped it — though a lot of people have spent incredible amounts of their time trying to (only to end up like all the others). Meanwhile, the people who were given a wakeup call about their mortality? They squeezed more life into those remaining years than they had in all the others before.
Pretend today is the end.
"Let us prepare our minds as if we'd come to the very end of life. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life's books each day ... The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time."— Seneca
"Live each day as if it were your last" is a cliché. Plenty say it, few actually do it. How reasonable would that be anyway? Surely Seneca isn't saying to forsake laws and considerations — to find some orgy to join because the world is ending.
A better analogy would be a soldier about to leave on deployment. Not knowing whether they'll return or not, what do they do?
They get their affairs in order. They handle their business. They tell their children or their family that they love them. They don't have time for quarreling or petty matters. And then in the morning they are ready to go — hoping to come back in one piece but prepared for the possibility that they might not.
Let us live today the same way. Because as Steve Jobs put it, "If you live each day as it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." And even if somehow, you weren't, it would still be a better existence than the person who makes the risky bet on living forever.
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