- The following is an adaptation from Tim Ferriss' book, "Tribe of Mentors."
- He asked the world's top minds in business and the arts which book they've given most frequently as a gift — or which books have most influenced their lives.
- Below are just a few of the many books that came up most frequently.
"What's your favorite book?" seems like a good question. So innocent, so simple. In practice, it's terrible. I interviewed more than 100 of the most successful entrepreneurs, athletes, actors, writers, and other experts for my book, "Tribe of Mentors." These are people who have often read hundreds or thousands of books, so it's a labor-intensive question for them, and they rightly worry about picking a "favorite," which then gets quoted and put in articles, Wikipedia, etc.
To navigate around the problem of asking hundreds of the world's top performers about their favorite books, I devised a slightly different question: What is the book (or books) you've given most as a gift, and why? Or what are one to three books that have greatly influenced your life?
"Most gifted" is lower risk, an easier search query (easier to recall), and implies benefits for a broader spectrum of people, which the idiosyncratic "favorite" does not.
The answers I got opened my eyes to many new books I'd not heard of and reinforced how strongly I felt about some other titles. A few folks were even gracious enough to gift my books to their friends on a regular basis. But I was most interested in was the frequency with which some books were mentioned.
Here are a few books (of many) that came up a lot:
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'Man's Search for Meaning' by Viktor E. Frankl
When I asked Jimmy Fallon, Emmy Award–and Grammy Award–winning comedian, what book he gives out most often as a gift, he said:
"If I gave one to an adult, it would be Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. I read it while spending ten days in the ICU of Bellevue hospital trying to re-attach my finger from a ring avulsion accident in my kitchen. It talks about the meaning of life, and I believe you come out a better person from reading it. The lines I took from it are: 'There is no exact answer to the question ‘what is the meaning of life.' It's like asking a chess master ‘what is the best move in the world?' It all depends on what situation you are in.' It also reinforced the belief, that which does not kill me makes me stronger. If you read it, you'll get more from it."
Actor and former NFL player Terry Crews said about Man's Search for Meaning, "[It's] absolutely essential to me in order to keep my perspectives correct in a changing world."Dr. Michael Gervais, a high-performance psychologist who works with the best athletes on the planet, also revealed that he often gifts Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning because, "He outlines methods to discover deep meaning and purpose in life."
'The Rational Optimist' by Matt Ridley
Naval Ravikant, the co-founder and CEO of AngelList, has refined his way of living in very unique ways, including his reading habits. So when he shared with me that he frequently gifts The Rational Optimist to people, I couldn't wait to share it with my audience. In fact, Naval likes to pass out copies of anything by The Rational Optimist author Matt Ridley. "Matt is a scientist, optimist, and forward thinker. Genome, The Red Queen, The Origins of Virtue, The Rational Optimist— they're all great," Naval told me.
While Naval is considered a top performer in Silicon Valley, John Arnold built his career on Wall Street as founder and CEO of Centaurus Energy, a multibillion-dollar energy commodity hedge fund. John retired in 2012 and is now a co-chair of the Laura and John Arnold Foundation. Here's what he shared with me when I asked him what book he gives the most as a gift:
"Much of one's attitude toward life depends on their level of optimism. An optimistic person will invest more in him- or herself, as the deferred reward is expected to be higher. A pessimistic person prefers the immediate returns at the expense of the long-term outcomes. However, the news cycle, driven by negative stories of the day, is the proverbial missing the forest for the trees. The reality, best captured in The Rational Optimist by Matt Ridley and The Better Angels of Our Nature by Steven Pinker, is that the long-term trend in almost every measure is resolutely positive. Optimism is a reflexive trait, with a circular relationship between cause and effect. The more optimistic society is about the future, the better the future is. These books serve as a reminder of the great advances society has made."
'The Better Angels of Our Nature' by Steven Pinker
You probably noticed that John Arnold (above) mentioned this book as one of the two most gifted books he gives out—and he wasn't the only top performer I talked to that had a habit of doing so.
Stewart Brand, the president of the Long Now Foundation, established to creatively foster long-term thinking and responsibility in the framework of the next 10,000 years, described The Better Angels of Our Nature as one of the books he considers as a, "fundamental guidebooks for understanding and helping civilization":
"[The Idea of Decline in Western History by Arthur Herman] shows the consequences of believing romantic, tragic narratives of societies becoming degraded, while The Better Angels of Our Nature chronicles how humanity has in fact become less violent, less cruel, and more just with every passing millennium, century, and decade."
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